First of all, you need to be aware that this is the typical behavior of fantasy-minded men known as the Feet Slave.
Although it is a very frequent fantasy, many men cannot name this uncontrollable desire they feel to submit to their partners’ feet.
Technically it’s like an update on foot fetish. Supporters undoubtedly recognize themselves as podolaters. They want to kiss, lick and cuddle the feet that seduce him so much, but with the difference that they feel good doing it all as slaves to the shapes and even the smell of their feet. There is also a desire to feel enslaved by the partner’s charms. They see her a woman who seduces on her high heels, or even barefoot, and who walks with precision, has a steady look and voice, and takes pleasure in subduing her partner, wishing him to crawl after her.
Knowing what is BDSM Light.
When one has such pious desire for submission, there is nothing wrong. But it is not the case that they call themselves only podolaters, because in fact they are something more. Such a fantasy is already part of the erotic BDSM game.
Many feel a certain fear when they think of BDSM. Thinking about the term soon brings the idea of more radical whipping scenes, involving the pain of accessories such as staples, cannes, candles, etc., and rigorous doctrines with prolonged punishment sessions.
It turns out that within the BDSM Universe itself there are subdivisions that scale practitioners according to the level at which they are available for one practice only, or for a set of practices. Also in the BDSM game there are the limits of each fan, in addition to the strictly followed SSC rule (they are safe and consensual).
Generally speaking, the complete BDSM with everything imaginable would be a HARD BDSM. BDSM LIGHT is dosed in moderation.
Faced with this complexity of desires of podolatrous men and slaves, not all women react receptively. It is necessary to understand and respect the limits of each one. As much as in the mind of the man who wants to be a slave, the intention is to give his partner the feeling of “Queen’s comfort,” it is not every person who feels good about subduing another. The position of domineering woman is quite exhausting, as it involves the preparation and control of everything that is intended to happen, while also caring for possible risks that may occur. By stepping on someone, the chances of unwanted accidents are quite high.
What about women who identify with the position of wanting a man at their feet (not only in the romantic context, but also with the idea of submissives)? It is even more delicate, since the same society insists on the role of women who obey patriarchy.
The answer (or an advice board) for both cases is to assume that “society” cannot impose what each does between four walls. Take as an example people who enjoy anal sex. One member of the couple presents the proposal to the other member. They both like the idea, begin to practice the act in their privacy, and it becomes their particularity without having to explain it to anyone else. Enjoying being a foot slave with light or heavy BDSM games is another example of this same particularity.
Taking on an eccentric taste is always a complex process, but not a challenge that should cause fear. “Conservatism” is a moral imposition advocated by some but in today’s world it’s just another ideology struggling to stay applicable, and it’s falling with each passing day. In times of internet when people around the world have come to release their will by writing anonymously or creating fake profiles to take on and protect themselves, this is the path that has been most recommended as long as their intentions are positive. So choose this path, or go ahead with the face and courage, but go. Both characters in this fantasy (the Queen and the slave) do exist and are out there. Take your own taste, defend what is good for you! Make a proposal to your partner and let the consequence go as it has to be. Healthy desires are there to be fulfilled. Without trying, you get no answers. as long as your intentions are positive. So choose this path, or go ahead with the face and courage, but go. Both characters in this fantasy (the Queen and the slave) do exist and are out there.
Take your own taste, defend what is good for you! Make a proposal to your partner and let the consequence go as it has to be. Healthy desires are there to be fulfilled. Without trying, you get no answers. as long as your intentions are positive. So choose this path, or go ahead with the face and courage, but go. Both characters in this fantasy (the Queen and the slave) do exist and are out there. Take your own taste, defend what is good for you! Make a proposal to your partner and let the consequence go as it has to be. Healthy desires are there to be fulfilled. Without trying, you get no answers.
Remembering that respect must always be fundamental. In both approaches and relationships. When you are with someone who does not respect your way of thinking and achieving pleasure, the link between those involved tends to be disappointing in the medium / long term.
It is still valid to add the influences to which everyone is subjected as: cultural issues of “dispute” between genders; and also a little of the basic idea of feminism (without going into the complex issues that the term carries today). Consider a situation of female “rematch” and you will find that there is in women a desire, however simple, to make a man bow before her. Of course this is not a fit concept for all women, but for the most part it is. From situations in school, when the boys’ team plays against the girls’ team and the girls’ team is always at a disadvantage, to the challenges of adolescence and adulthood in demonstrating seduction resourcefulness to win partners. Women naturally have the desire to emerge victorious in the situation, so to reach the moment that man finally gives himself up,
Inhibiting talking about the theme opens the gap to the fantasy trade.
But while many eager for this fantasy do not decide to go any further and talk more about their wishes, the paid session trade has been on the rise. It is the easiest and most immediate way out of solving ‘the horny’ – man pays to be satisfied and owes no explanation to anyone.
Without having this explanation that men themselves (unleashed with fear) could talk to their mates, many women are not even aware of this masculine tare. Some hear, but misjudge the fantasy, because sometimes they limit themselves and criticize without even seeking more information. There are also those who even like the idea that when interacting with partners they are inhibited in competing with the concept (unfortunately carelessly) for those who “charge” for the service, making it seem that this kind of podolatrous fantasy is taken for granted. bad impression and vulgar fetish, selling a body part (feet), tied to the standard of “doing what the customer wants”.
It is precisely the lack of women waking up and taking a liking to the subject, embracing the idea of becoming the desired fatal women from head to toe, that contributes to “so many others” exploring the situation.